The words are almost out before J pulls them back. It wouldn't be wrong for him to say that isn't true, that S was never at fault. It just also doesn't seem fair to blurt that out without some consideration or the tiniest bit of tact or even thought.
And, really, when he does stop to think about it, he finds he has what he thinks is a slightly better grasp on the situation. It's incredibly difficult to articulate this, because he knows, were their roles reversed, he very much wouldn't see the difference. He doesn't expect S to either, stubborn as he is. How S ever has the patience and presence of mind to explain things to J when he's upset and out of sorts and not understanding things that surely seem very obvious to S, J will never know. That J only sort of understands these things for himself makes it that much harder.
Pressing a kiss to S's hair, he squeezes him a little. "You won't be," he says. It seems the simplest, most honest way he can say it. "You weren't." As much as he doubts S will believe him, as awkward as it is to say, he has to find a way to do so. Complicating matters is the way he can feel the sharpness at his eyes before he's even figured out the words. It's not easy to talk about this. It never will be. "It's... I can't say that... you don't have an impact. You do. But I — it's not something you do or say. When I... when I did it... before..." He huffs, small and sad, shaking his head. "I don't know, truthfully. But I think it wasn't you exactly? It was the idea that I could have done that. That I'd... fallen so far. Become so awful."
Though the words come a little more easily as he speaks, they still send a tiny shudder through him. He's gotten to a place where he doesn't think quite so terribly of himself most days. He's had to, needed to learn to live with it all in order to stay alive at all. Even so, he's keenly aware of how he felt then, and how those self-recriminations echo through his head still. "Coming here after that," he says, "exhausted and nervous and afraid... seeing — seeing the scars I made —" He bites his lip hard, staring down into S's hair to keep from closing his eyes and reliving that moment. "I saw how badly I hurt you, and I thought I really must be as monstrous as I'd thought earlier."
He doesn't know if S will see the difference here. Admittedly, J's not sure it's a very obvious one to anyone but him or that he's done a good job of explaining it.
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And, really, when he does stop to think about it, he finds he has what he thinks is a slightly better grasp on the situation. It's incredibly difficult to articulate this, because he knows, were their roles reversed, he very much wouldn't see the difference. He doesn't expect S to either, stubborn as he is. How S ever has the patience and presence of mind to explain things to J when he's upset and out of sorts and not understanding things that surely seem very obvious to S, J will never know. That J only sort of understands these things for himself makes it that much harder.
Pressing a kiss to S's hair, he squeezes him a little. "You won't be," he says. It seems the simplest, most honest way he can say it. "You weren't." As much as he doubts S will believe him, as awkward as it is to say, he has to find a way to do so. Complicating matters is the way he can feel the sharpness at his eyes before he's even figured out the words. It's not easy to talk about this. It never will be. "It's... I can't say that... you don't have an impact. You do. But I — it's not something you do or say. When I... when I did it... before..." He huffs, small and sad, shaking his head. "I don't know, truthfully. But I think it wasn't you exactly? It was the idea that I could have done that. That I'd... fallen so far. Become so awful."
Though the words come a little more easily as he speaks, they still send a tiny shudder through him. He's gotten to a place where he doesn't think quite so terribly of himself most days. He's had to, needed to learn to live with it all in order to stay alive at all. Even so, he's keenly aware of how he felt then, and how those self-recriminations echo through his head still. "Coming here after that," he says, "exhausted and nervous and afraid... seeing — seeing the scars I made —" He bites his lip hard, staring down into S's hair to keep from closing his eyes and reliving that moment. "I saw how badly I hurt you, and I thought I really must be as monstrous as I'd thought earlier."
He doesn't know if S will see the difference here. Admittedly, J's not sure it's a very obvious one to anyone but him or that he's done a good job of explaining it.