It's strange. He should feel a little more at peace, hearing S regain some calm, but he doesn't. Instead J can feel the threat of tears again, his heart breaking a little. He hasn't just made a mistake — he's made a long series of them, day by day, not saying anything when he should have. It likely won't be the last time he's a coward, he knows. How he doesn't learn when it hurts every time to find he's hurt S, he doesn't know. He can see it, though, in that placid quiet, the reassurance, the demurred sacrifice. S does so much for him, for the sake of him, and J stayed quiet, selfishly afraid of one burst of upset they could have moved past by now if he'd spoken up.
"I don't feel like I have to," he says, a little wounded in spite of himself. He would have thought S would want to be done with this. "I don't want you to feel like you have to — either way. But I want to. I want to so much, I just —" He sighs, eyes closing tight. Though he's managed to stay reasonably subdued, it's still difficult. He's not sure it will ever stop being difficult.
"I knew," he continues after a moment, "that bringing it up would be upsetting. Talking about it always is, even when it's a good thing. And a lot of the time when I want to say something, we're already... getting undressed." He rolls his eyes at himself. "And I don't want to derail things, so I don't say anything, and I should, I should have. It was selfish of me. You've been so — so patient and thoughtful and I just kept quiet because I thought I could bring it up later, and then I never do." He doesn't even have a good reason for that. He just hates getting like this, agitated by the past, likely to start crying, even as he's constantly reminded of it regardless by the very fact S is half-clothed at those times. It's all he can do to keep from apologizing. The only thing that keeps him in check is knowing he couldn't handle S telling him not to.
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"I don't feel like I have to," he says, a little wounded in spite of himself. He would have thought S would want to be done with this. "I don't want you to feel like you have to — either way. But I want to. I want to so much, I just —" He sighs, eyes closing tight. Though he's managed to stay reasonably subdued, it's still difficult. He's not sure it will ever stop being difficult.
"I knew," he continues after a moment, "that bringing it up would be upsetting. Talking about it always is, even when it's a good thing. And a lot of the time when I want to say something, we're already... getting undressed." He rolls his eyes at himself. "And I don't want to derail things, so I don't say anything, and I should, I should have. It was selfish of me. You've been so — so patient and thoughtful and I just kept quiet because I thought I could bring it up later, and then I never do." He doesn't even have a good reason for that. He just hates getting like this, agitated by the past, likely to start crying, even as he's constantly reminded of it regardless by the very fact S is half-clothed at those times. It's all he can do to keep from apologizing. The only thing that keeps him in check is knowing he couldn't handle S telling him not to.